Practical thoughts on the World and Buddha

The Buddha is one person that I respect the most because he is the most powerful thought-provoking to me. Southeast Asian people want to live with good things and appreciate our life, which is why I want you to know more why we believe deeply in Buddhism.

According to reality, the world is changing. We have a modern style of living, and modern transportation such as cars, buses, and trucks to supply our demands. However, the more we develop, the more we become angry and violent to each other. Sometimes, we fight each other for food and money to supply our unlimited needs. We are the same as animals; when we are hungry we fight in order to survive in this world.

Whenever, we act like this, we will not find who we are, but eventually we will have mental disorders, because we cannot find the way to warn our mind. These are my personal thoughts. On the other hand, if you live close to nature and peace, you will find who you are and how your life is important.

So, let’s take a look at Laos and Buddhism. Why do we follow the Buddha’s teachings? Is it a cultural norm or personal belief? Remember, everything that I want you to know is not rubbish or just a tale. Everything that I mentioned here is true and has proof or evidences, which will help you learn more before you visit Laos and other Southeast Asian nations.

to be continued in … the Buddha’s life and Lao people.

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Good Results

The last term at my school, the Lao- American College, was the hardest studying I have done because I had to complete 6 subjects at the same time. Those subjects include Fine Arts, History of English, Environmental studies, and Lao language.

My goal was to get a grade of “A” in all of them. However, Most of them are too difficult. So, I have mostly spent all of my time studying. From one month to another, I went to school every day, no matter if I had problems such as no money, the bad weather, or family conflicts. I was still strict in studying.

When I had many assignments and projects given to me, I had to paid attention to do all of them. Therefore, sometimes I felt angry easily when somebody tries asking me to do too much. Maybe, I studied too hard and was tired, which is why I become angry easily. Moreover, when I look at other people, I saw most of them were comfortable, which means they have all study materials such as a notebook, and a computer at home to support them. Unlike me, I don’t have anything. Everyday, I come to school early and wait for one hour for a librarian to open the door. Then, I can use the computer to do my assignments and projects.

Anyway, sometimes I do not appreciate about my life; but if I look wider, I see many people who have a more difficult life then me. Besides, I learn from Buddhist teaching; the Buddha claimed that everything in this world is not sustainable, which means when there is a beginning, there is an end. So, it means to me that I must appreciate things for myself. Every problem comes to teach you how to overcome those in order to be successful tomorrow.

The Buddhist teaching is effective for people who stay in the darkness. Then, the Buddha will give you directions on how to fight with the life in society; you will read more in the next story because I will write more deep details about Buddha and Buddhism.

Finally, I try to do my best everyday and study until the end of the term and the final test comes to an end. Two weeks later, the new term has come again; I went to register and check for my grades, and eventually found that I get four A’s for four subjects, and B+ for two subjects, which makes me feel relieved and appreciate the result.

I think my hard studying and Buddhist teaching made me successful in that term. But the battle is not finished. I have to find the method to fight again in this term. Will I win the war of studying or not? Let’s take a look again this October.

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Two weeks holiday

After I finished the hardest school term the last months, I have two weeks for holiday. So, I will have time to do whatever I want without thinking about studying.

For the first week and the second week I will mostly stay with my family and my nieces and nephews. I live in a countryside style; everyday we plant vegetables in the small garden beside the ponds at my house, next to trees and other gardens. The weather changes between raining and the sun shining. Sometimes it’s hot and sometimes cold.

One day last week we went to the forest to dig bamboo and find mushrooms. It was so fascinating and enjoyable. After that, we took what we got to cook in the traditional style, and had the good natural food together. Moreover, some things that make me appreciate living in the countryside are the songs of the birds on the high trees and the fresh air, which you never have the chance to touch it.

These are short weekends for me, but I am happy to spend the time with my family, particularly, my parents.

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Different Emotions

Sometimes I ask myself: who am I? Why do I live in this world? Why do I have to study? I think that everyone might think the same like me. When I was young, I had freedom to do whatever I wanted. Today when grow up, my mind is changing. I now have more duties and responsibilities, which means everything becomes messy. For example, sometimes, I can’t control my feelings.

When I study Psychology, the teacher has taught me everything about how to control our emotions in different situation. After that, I learn and understand myself more and more. Since I learn about Psychology, it makes me discover the truth of me. Sometimes I have ten different emotions in one day, such as depression, anger, jealousy, happiness, feeling calm, talkative, serious…on the other hand, I found that I am confused about those feelings.

When I stay at home, I love to be alone and silent; I hate a lot of people. Then, when I go out I feel more confident and like to talk to other people; which means I am never sad or angry like the way I am at home. What is more, I also feel that I am not normal person. I feel different from other human beings. Later, I feel that I see something that normal people can’t touch, such as ghosts, spirits and other supernatural sights. To explain more, there are many abilities that I can do such as painting, singing, dancing, playing instruments, designing, decorating, composing a novel or a song….all of those things have been guarantees by awards that I get from my ability and creative ideas.

The more I discover myself, the more I feel I am not normal, which means it might have many personalities in one body, or “Multiple personality.” Something that helps me understand myself more is the new X-men movie. Although I don’t have a special power like they do, my opinion and thinking are similar. However, I am proud of myself that I different from others.

I want you who read this article to go and think: who am I? I’m sure that many people will face these problems like me at this time.

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Impact of Society

This past weekend was the most serious week for me. During April, there were many things that impacted my life. The first thing that I have to fight is poverty. I am sure that all of you might have faced the same things before. I know that there are some things to make me learn to overcome it. How should I say or express my feelings to those who read this article? It is hard for me to talk about it.

The torrential rain started last week and continues this week. The streets of Vientiane were flooded and dirty. I have to wake up early in the morning to take a shower and go to school. I sometimes ask myself: “When I will finish school?” It makes me bored and tired. For instance, I drive to school, I get wet by the rain, and sometimes I fall down, which make me depressed. Why have the gods sent me to be born in this hard situation?

I look at the people who drive luxurious cars and I am jealous of their life. At school, I see my friends who have bought new cars. Compared to them, I am so poor. I am not looking down on my destiny, but I express the real feeling of a human being. What is more, when go back home from school, there isn’t anything to eat. However, I try to save money. I don’t buy something if it is not useful.

Last week my nephew went to the hospital because of a stomachache. I was the one responsible for taking him to the hospital and I paid for some medicine for him. Furthermore, in the next two weeks, I have final exams again, I have to study hard and pay for school fee again.

Luckily, I think positive and never give up my goal, I hope that one day, I will be the rich person, which means I can buy anything whatever I want, and the last thing make me smile to the difficultly life is the my parents.

Whenever I am sad or depressed, I remember I have a good and caring mother who always stands beside me and cheers me up. And I also have the best step-brother who helps me with some money when I need it. These are the best gifts that the gods have given to me”

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Lao New Year Memories

The time passes quicker than I expected, which means studying comes back to my life again. During the one week of the Lao New Year or “Pee Mai Lao,” I had a special event to celebrate with my friends and my family. The first day of New Year, my family had a small ceremony, which is called “Basi” in Lao. This ceremony is celebrated to bring the good luck come to my house, and let the bad luck go out with old year.

It was on April 13, my family joined together including my parents, my sisters, their children, and some relatives who hadn’t seen each other for a long time. That day, we made some fragrant water with natural flowers, mixed with perfume. We used it to “wash” my parents in order to make them forgive us for the bad things we have done to them in the old year. After we finished splashing my parents, we continued to splash each other, and eventually we had lunch. Later, we danced in the Lao traditional style.

Traditionally, on the second day and on the last day of Lao New Year, we prepare the fragrant water, and go to the temple and wash the Buddha images. However, this year I just went to one temple, which is located in front of Wattay International Airport.

About 2:30 p.m, I noticed that there were many people crowded on the street, even at the Donchun beach, which is the biggest beach on the Mekong River. People looked so extremely happy, splashing water on each other. Some stood on cars, some drove motorcycles, and some walked along the street. Those pictures appeared in front of me while I was standing with my friends on the other side of Koonboulom Street, near the Novotel Hotel. Anyway, my friends joined together, we had some food and drinks, listened to music and danced in different styles until 9 p.m. Then we said goodbye and went back home.

Everything that I have done during the Lao New Year will become my good memory, but eventually the present I got from the New Year was dark skin and felling tired! However, I think that I must be ready for everything that comes to my life in order to walk confidently to the future.

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Happy Lao New Year 2008

The Lao New Year or “Pee Mai Lao,” is the biggest annual festival or celebration in Laos. It is not only celebrated in Laos, but also in other parts of the world where Lao people have moved, such as: America, Canada, Australia, France, and many more countries.

The Lao New Year was celebrated for many centuries, from generation to generation based on the lunar calendar. Nowadays, this special holiday is celebrated at the same time every year, similar to Thailand and Cambodia. However, the dates which each country will celebrate depends on the day and tradition.

In Laos, this festival is celebrated for three days, from April 13 to 15. During this period, the weather is so hot and hotter. So, the best way to stop the heat is for people to take water and throw it to each other. Traditionally, Lao people will splash water on friends, parents, grandparents, and visitors in order to wash the bad luck away, gone with the old year, and wish good luck to come with the water that is splashed.

There are other things that Lao people do during the New Year; at every temple the monks will take the Buddha images out of the “sim,” where the Buddha images are kept, to the small hut in order to let Lao people cleanse the Buddha images by throwing or splashing water on them.

Before we go to the temple, we have to prepare the water, which is mixed from fragrant flowers, perfume, Kimin, and other natural things that give a fragrant smell to the water. After that we will take the water to the temple to splash on the Buddha images. In Laos, we call this “Song Phra.” We have done it for many years in order to ask for wishes from sacred spirits. This is the first day of Lao New Year.

On the second day, April 14, in Luang Prabang Province, in northern Laos (which is a world heritage site), people will celebrate old traditions and customs with a big parade around the city. For example, they will have a group of Nang Sang Khan; there are seven woman, and the youngest woman will hold her father’s head with four faces that we call “Pha Phom,” (one of the sacred Hindu gods). The youngest sits on the animal, which represents the new year. What is more, there are groups of old grandparents, called “Pou ger ya ger.” The other is a group of angels, monkeys, and giants.

During the Parade, some people are dancing, some people are fighting (a kind of acting) like the way we did in the past. The two sides of the street are crowded by local people and foreigners to join the celebration until the parade arrives at the Xieng Thong Temple. Finally, the seven women who are the Pa Phom’s daughters will take the head and give it to the monk and splash it with fragrant water in order to bring good luck.

On the last day, April 15, Lao people will go to the beach or temples with sand. they will take the sand to create large mounds that look like mountains, what we call “Kailart,”, where the Kabinlaphom head was kept. Next, they will make a wish in their heart about how many children they want. Eventually, they will create many small stupas around the big one. Finally, the celebration ends.

During the Lao New year, Lao people also dance, sing songs, play traditional instruments, and do other activities which are very enjoyable. Everyone is happy to do these things after the end of work.

What is more, I would like to invite all of you to visit Laos during this period of the water festival. Here, you will see the real nature and hospitality of the people, which is like you are going back in history. It is fascinating, eye-wondering, and full of the special memory that you will never forget.

This is Laos, a land of smiles.

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Learning about Leonardo Da Vinci

This term at school I registered for a class in the subject of Fine Arts. Everyday, and every weekend, when it was time to study about Art, it seemed so boring for me. Other people in Western countries might thought that Art can make give us a calm and peaceful emotions. However, I think the same, too.

Let’s go back to my school and what I study. Yesterday was my Fine Arts class, which was taught by an American teacher named Rob. I can’t give you details about his appearance because in this case it is not suitable. He was teaching us specifics on a variety of music such as African, Indian, and Chinese. However, the studying was boring because he didn’t show any new inspiration to me.

Yesterday, we had a new lesson; he taught us about the great artists in Greece and Italy that include Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo and Raphael. But, the most interesting artist to me is Leonardo da Vinci.

The reasons are that he was the great artist who began the Renaissance and had great inventions and paintings, such as the portrait of Mona Lisa, and the Last Supper. One point that makes me wonder; why is the Mona Lisa painting so popular and one of the most expensive in the world, and how is it different from others? I think that one reason is this portrait has a mysterious and secretive appearance, which everyone never knew before.

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Savannakhet Trip: Part 2

I stayed in Savannakhet province for two days; Saturday and Sunday. Then, on Monday we went back to Vientiane. Savannakhet is smaller than Vientiane, where it can take three or four hours to ride a bicycle ride around the city. Besides, in Savannakhet there are many tourist sites worth seeing such as Sayyaphoum Temple. This is the oldest temple in Savannakhet. It’s located in front of the Mekong River, on the left side; on the right side is Mukdahan, the famous district in Nakon Phanom (Thailand). To get to that temple, I took about 25 minutes from my sister’s house to the downtown of Savannakhet by bicycle.

While I was riding the bicycle alone in the early morning on Saturday, the sun was rising above my head. The one thing that was different from Vientiane was the strong wind, which I had never seen in Vientiane during the summer. What’s more, I noticed that the city was very quiet. This was due to not having many cars and people. This is unlike in Vientiane, which is so crowded by people, cars, motorbikes, and noise pollution.

I kept going on my bicycle for about 20 minutes. After that I asked a man, who was a Savannakhet villager, about the direction to Sayyaphoum temple. He told me to ride straight, and then I will see the main street next to the Mekong River. I followed his directions and eventually I found the main street like he said.

The thing that made me impressed was the picture that appeared before my eyes; the beautiful mountains and the city of Mukdahan, Thailand. Moreover, I also observed that there some small islands in the middle of the Mekong River. Believe me or not, that picture made me feel calm and relaxed at the same time. Therefore, I took some photos in order to keep in my memory. Besides, I also saw the car with a group of people in traditional dress. The men played Lao instruments called “Khaen Flute” and “Phin.” Some women were dancing in Lao traditional style and singing Lao songs with a happy feeling, which means they are having a village festival. That is not easy to see if you are not lucky person.

I turned back to the temple and saw that it was a Sayyaphoum temple. In Lao architecture, a Sayyaphoum temple is the oldest temple with six buildings. The roof is made from clay brick and the walls are decorated with paintings about Buddha’s life. Some buildings were very wide and look like the French style, which means they might have been built during the French colonial period. Moreover, there was fresh air to breathe because of the temple is surrounded by many big trees. I saw the monks had sculpted the Buddha images. Lastly, I worshipped the Buddha image and finally rode back to my sister house with a good memory.

During the holiday in Savannakhet, I had a chance to visit many interesting places. For example, on Sunday, I went to Wat Thart, or Thart Inhang Temple, a sacred place in the Buddhist religion. I went there with my family. Thart Inhang temple is deep in the forest, about 30 km to the north from Savannakhet. When you take a bus from Vientiane, you will see the big sign on the left that says “The way to Thart Inhang Temple,” before you reach Savannakhet. After you turn left, you keep going about 20 minutes and you will see Thart Inhang village and the temple at the same time. That temple was built during the Buddha’s life, 2500 years ago. It was the place for the Buddha and his students to relax during visits to Laos or Siskhaotabong Kingdom. Later, it was built as the big black stupa to be the memory of Buddha, where the Lao people can worship.

After we finished worshipping the Inhang stupa, we continued back to Vientiane. On the way went back to Vientiane, you can look at the landscape between the two sides of the street, and see the countryside people and their way of living. Lastly, you can see the beautiful view of the Mekong River on the left side, where can make your eye wonder and impress your emotions.

This is a new option for travelers who want to discover the new place for your special vacation.

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Trip to Savannakhet province

Last week, I had a good opportunity to visit Savannakhet, a province which is located in southern Laos. There are so many historical sites waiting for everyone to see. Savannakhet is about 856 km from Vientiane. To go there you can pass Borlikhansay and Khammuan provinces along the 13 South Highway. If you want to travel there, you can take bus at the south bus terminal at Daongkok village, in front of the traffic light and three junctions.

It was on Saturday morning when I heard the telephone ring while I was watching the television in the living room. I picked up the phone immediately and I heard my mother tell me to bring my nephew’s milk to Savannakhet as soon as possible because they forgot it. After I finished talking on the phone, I ran in to my bedroom and packed some clothes in my bag and dressed in a T-shirt. I called my sister who lives on the other side of the pond and asked her to take me to the bus station. She drove hurriedly and asked me, “Why did they forget the milk? Frankly, a lot of people went with them.” I didn’t say anything, I just kept quiet. Eventually I reached the bus to Savannakhet.

The reason my family went to Savannakhet was because of my niece’s wedding. Besides, my sister who was visiting us from America wanted to visit my oldest sister who has lived in Savannakhet for many years. I had to take the milk because the type of milk my nephew drinks cannot be bought in anywhere in Laos. So that is why I had to go there.

As soon as I entered the bus there were so many people, and most of the seats were full. There only one seat available for me. That was lucky, I thought to myself; if there were not any seats free for you, you might stand until you reached your destination. Inside the bus there was a bad smell and the temperature was hot. “Oh god, I might die soon,” I thought, while I took a seat close to a woman dressed in yellow who carried some bread in her right hand.

It was such a crowded situation, one that I had never faced before. On the way I noticed there were some foreign passengers, and in the center of the bus there were a group of Vietnamese and Chinese people who were talking loudly. Anyway I didn’t care; I just keep quiet and took a nap. While the bus was running, I glanced outside the window and saw trees surrounding the mountains. They are cut by countryside people, and they use it to sell and build houses. This produces greenhouse gas into the atmosphere. So, this is why the climate change is getting worse in Laos now. Suddenly, I fell asleep and I didn’t awake until eight hours later. The bus driver called to me and said that we had arrived in Savannakhet. The bus stopped and I took my bag and got off the bus. And then I walked toward my oldest sister’s house.

…to be continued (about historical sites) soon!

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Sad weekend

This week was very boring for me. I had to study harder and harder because of my midterm exams at school. This cycle comes to me again and again since I was a little boy and I first entered primary school. During this exam period every student must prepare for the test and study harder more they used to, including me too.

Yesterday, my sister and her family just left to return to America (where they are living). We had a good time together for the two weeks they visited me and my family in Vientiane. If anyone who has this situation like me, you will understand how sad it was to see them leave, after we had a special time to meet each other. One day we might leave from each other. This is very sad. I talked to my sister for about fifteen minutes. Mostly, I told her to be brave with everything that comes to her life because she is the last hope for me, someone who has sacrificed for the whole family in order to rid us from our poor situation.

After we finished talking, I said goodbye to her and her husband, and I went to school. At the school, I had many projects to do such as an environments project, a fine arts assignment, and some book reading. Sometimes I feel so tired, but it’s okay because it is the duty I like to do. I believe that one day, those things will help me to get the goal and get rid of poverty.

After I finished studying at 8 p.m., most of the time I spent listening to music. I took a shower and prepared studying for the next day. It is boring for me, but it is better than I if I didn’t have anything to do.

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Full of Happiness

Last Saturday, March 8, was an important day, a time full of happiness for my family. We had been waiting for so long for this good news; my parents said that my sister, who lives in America, will come to visit us in Vientiane.

My sister is not beautiful at all, but she looks sexy because of her honey skin, which makes everyone praise her all the time. She has long brown hair, is tall, and her face looks different from my other sisters. Anyway, if you can not imagine how she looks, I can think of someone that she looks like: Beyonce Knowles, the famous black American singer.

On Saturday morning, everyone in my house hurried to take a shower and dressed as soon as possible. After that, we had a big meal together while the sun rose above the trees. It was a little hot because of summer. I did not do anything because I could not pick up my sister with my family at Wattay Airport. The reason I couldn’t is because I had a language class at school. So, I didn’t go. However, I felt so excited about her arrival even though, I didn’t pick her up.

Two hours later, I went back home from school and saw a group of people at my house: my sister with her two sons and her husband. I parked my motorbike and quickly ran inside my house. I kissed and hugged my sister because I missed her. Everyone talked to each other and eventually my sister gave me a new DVD player. It was so great because I dreamed about getting one all the time. However, the most important thing on this day was all of my family members could be with each other. This had not happened since my sister left Laos several years ago.

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Nongphong Trip, Part 2

It’s about 1 km from Nongphong primary school to The Lao-American College’s garden. The bus stopped in front of the door. That time, we had to take everything with us as we walked out of the buses and followed our teacher. The LAC’s garden was so big and wide. Anyway, on the way to Nongphong Village we passed three ponds, which were full with a variety of fish, and mango trees surrounded the ponds. However, not any people felt excited about seeing it because the temperature was too hot. The man who is administrator of The Lao – American college told us the history of LAC’s garden. Otherwise, there were few people interested in his speech.

Later, we saw the head of Nongphong village with some villagers who were waiting for us. There were three men and one woman in traditional dresses. Most of them are about 30 year old. Next, my teacher introduced us to the head of village and some villagers. We said “Sa bai dee” in Lao and eventually the speech started. Everyone took some pencils, pens, notebooks and cameras in order to ask a head of Nongphong Village questions and take notes. The speech took about two hours. Then, after the speech, some of the Nongphong villagers and the head of village said thank you tous for visiting their village and helping. We replied the same as the way they did. Finally, we took some photos together and went back to Vientiane.

To conclude, from the trip that I have a good experience. It makes me know more about Nongphong Village, which is still undeveloped. The details I want you to know are these: Nongphong Village has 1,453 houses, the average is 5 -7 people per one family. Their lives are based on agriculture, farming and fishing. They earn their living by selling vegetables and fish to the market in Vientiane. Their lives are simple and peaceful; no noise or any pollution like in the city. Lastly, everyone is kind and polite.

Finally, I want you to know that the children at Nongphong lack books and a school to educate them. Which is why, if you have chance to visit Laos, please come visit us at Lao-American College. Then, we will take you to see Nongphong Village if you want.

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Nongphong Village

The environment is one subject that is very important to me. All around the world today the environment is everything that surrounds us. So, I decided to take a class about the environment in order to know more about climate change and global warming.

I had to study the environment in class for three weeks. Then, my teacher, who is the director of The Lao-American College, took us to observe the impact of climate change at Nongphong, which is about 36 km far from Vientiane.

We went there on a Saturday morning. I got up early and ran to a nearby shop and bought two packages of soy milk and roasted chicken for my lunch at Nongphong. I hurried to take a shower and drove to school as soon as possible because the bus will leave at 8:30.

When I reached the school, the sun was above my head and the weather was very hot. Anyway, I saw about 100 classmates there because most of them were also taking the global and environment class. I’m sure thus will be a fun and exciting trip, I thought. Before the bus left, I saw many people take some milk, food, and posters to help poor children at the Nongphong primary school. Everyone looked excited and joyful, which make that situation like a trip to New York City. Then, our teachers told us that there will be 10 guests from Japan joining us. There were 8 guys and 2 women with white skin; and they looked so cute.

Eventually, the buses left from the Lao - American College to go to Phomvihan Road. We had a special time inside the bus. I sang a song, and some of my classmates took some photos. Others were dancing, eating and talking about the trip. That was a special time for us to take the rest after studying hard for a long time. The buses passed the forest, villages and Namgreum River about 45 minutes later. Then, we saw the sign on the right that said “Welcome to Nongphong Village” on the dusty road. Some of my classmates screamed because they saw the rice fields. Then, the buses stopped immediately when some of the student on the back called the bus drivers that they want go to number 1. After they finished, the buses kept going and eventually arrived our destination in front the Nongphong’s primary school.

As soon we saw the school, I noticed that there were many students waiting for us. Most of them were children, average 7 – 14 years-old, in school uniforms. They smiled at us in a friendly manner while we walking and carrying the things we had brought for them. Then, the head of village and some of teachers welcomed us to the yard of the school; we gave the children some of milk, posters and food. Furthermore, we took some photos and had lunch with them. While we were having a special time with students and the Nongphong villagers, I noticed that everyone was happy with this trip and appreciated the countryside environment. After lunch, our teacher told us to go back to the buses because we had to go to the school’s garden, which was about 6 km away. There, we met with the head of Nongphong village who gave us the history of village and the impact on climate change to their village.

… to be continued

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Vientiane Valentine’s Day

Yesterday was a special day for everyone who is in love because it was Valentine’s Day. For me, it was not different because I don’t have a girlfriend yet. Mainly I focus studying.

Yesterday there was just only cloud on the sky, and I could not see the sun. The weather was cold and windy, and everyone wore heavy jackets, including me. Early in the morning, while I was driving my motorbike to school along the road from my house, I noticed that the two sides of street were full of people selling roses and other flowers.

Anyway, there were many people buying roses for their girlfriend or boyfriend. It made me feel in love too, so I bought some roses for my classmates. I smiled and kept going. When I reached school, near the gate, there was a board for students to post their feelings about love or pass out valentine cards. So, it made the school atmosphere like it was in the pink of love.

My friends and I sat at a shop near school and looked at the other students. Some of them bought chocolate for their friends, and some bought roses or lilies. One of my friends, whose name is Lent, walked over to me and invited me to his birthday that night. “What a surprise!” I thought, “He was born on Valentine’s Day. Therefore, I didn’t refuse his invitation.

That evening I wore red to celebrate the Valentine’s Day. I drove to my friend’s house as fast as I could. On the way there, I saw that all of the restaurants in Vientiane were full of people … and roses. For example, some came to dinner with their family, some with their girlfriends and boy friends, and some with friends. It seemed like many Lao people were aware of this day very much.

I reached my friend’s house at Kouvieng, near the Morning Market. There, I met a lot of my friends from school. I gave my friend a birthday present. Then, we had dinner together and talked about Valentine’s Day and listened to music. We spent about three hours together and eventually said goodbye at 11:30 pm.

Even though Valentine’s Day is not part of the Lao culture, it can help us to love each other more than hate each other. Anyway, we can give love to our friends and our parents because the word of love is unlimited. So, tell the one who you love before it’s too late; everyday not just only Valentine’s Day.

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